Our lives are tranquil and smooth so seldom Wholesale Jared Cook Jersey , it seems. We have our ups-and-downs, our good days and bad days, our sunny moods and black moods. The less we swing in opposite directions, the happier we tend to be. The biology of our bodies craves balance and consistency -- changes in our thought patterns and emotions interrupt the regularity of our nerve pathways leading to chemical inbalance and internal disturbances.


Stress kills because stress is the critical determinant of how we think, how we feel, how we react: all activities which terribly upset that silent body chemistry. Events cause stress: the death or illness of a loved one Wholesale Derek Carr Jersey , fear of terrorism, divorce, exposure to violence or a personal attack, financial setbacks, loss of a job.


We cannot remove the event: it happened. We cannot control the stress: our bodies have already reacted. We can only control our mind and use its enormous power to move ourselves back closer to normalcy and serenity.


Unemployment plays havoc with our emotional system. We rapidly cycle through anger at what has happened, grief at what we have lost Wholesale Nick Nelson Jersey , fear of what lies ahead, and recurrent shockwaves of shame, anxiety, and despair. We take a number of hits all at once: loss of occupational identity, economic pressure, family anxiety Wholesale Arden Key Jersey , and the humiliation of job search. How can one little mind fight all of that at once?


One step at a time.


1. Assess.


Assess your situation objectively so you can set your priorities in order. If you are eligible, register for unemployment immediately while identifying everything in your life you can live without for the immediate future: entertainment, treats, brand foods, non-generic household staples, driving for pleasure Wholesale Brandon Parker Jersey , gourmet cooking, and eating out. Check your credit cards and major loans (house, car) and see if there are arrangements you can make to just pay the interest until you're back to work. Early contacts and planning may reduce your immediate financial burdens which will, in return, reduce your level of anxiety and fear.


Resolve not to ruminate about the unfairness of your layoff and identify some activities which will allow you to keep that negative brooding